The One Word that Forever Changed How I Approach the Bible


One Halloween about eight years ago, I was at Disneyworld, the happiest place on earth, with the unhappiest Minnie Mouse on earth. She was 8 years old, with a painted black button nose, full Minnie costume, sequin ears, and red glitter shoes. I don’t remember the details of the tragedy but it had something to do with real Minnie leaving the party before mini Minnie got a chance to see her.

It was a moment, let me tell you.

Mini Minnie was inconsolable. It didn’t matter that we were at Disneyworld, that she was the world’s most adorable mini Minnie, that we had all sorts of excitement planned for the rest of the evening.

It was the most epic and magical of meltdowns. And the emotional unraveling seemed to know no bounds.

At some point, we realized that mad mini Minnie might be hungry. I don’t remember what we fed her — a $7 Disney muffin, a Lunchable, I honestly have no idea. But within minutes, sanity was restored. It was shocking, a real-life Jeckyl / Hyde sort of moment. Mini Minnie stopped crying tears of rage and began speaking rational words. We could actually reason with her again. To a certain extent, she rallied.

All it took was a snack.

I’m sad to say, she comes by it honestly. While on our honeymoon at the beach, my husband recalls his hysterical new bride stopping in the middle of the bike path, dismounting the bike, and sobbing / sweating / claiming she was going to die.

One Sprite from a nearby vending machine and she was back in business.

The point is, we can get a little crazy when we don’t eat (or drink.) We lose all perspective. We despair. We cry. We don’t think or feel or act as we should.


Last week I began a new series here: The Sacred Art of Receiving Your Right-Now Life. 

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Daily, I live in the tension between my right-now life / roles / responsibilities, and my hoped-for life / work / dreams. Like the rest of you, I’m knee-deep in the dailyness of dinner, the relentlessness of laundry, helping with 4th grade math that’s too hard for me, raising kids in a crazy world, living in community, and working an actual job.

I have a beautiful life. Every day, I count the gifts. Living in the frustrating tension between the right-now and the hoped-for doesn’t mean I’m not grateful; it simply means that I wrestle. Peace and acceptance can be a challenge for me because Longing and Envy are always nipping at my heels.

I’m writing this series because I want to know what it looks like in our real, messy, daily lives to receive the life of Christ, broken for us, and then to “receive our own lives” with humility and trust, living broken and poured out as He did.

I’m learning that these complicated questions find their answers in the simple places and ordinary tasks of our daily work and regular lives.


That doesn’t mean it’s all happy-clappy-dishwashing and dinner-prepping and kid-raising. We’re going to get to these topics in our series but the reality is, we can’t even begin to talk about feeding and nourishing others until we first have been fed.

We have to eat.


What’s the one word that forever changed how I approach God’s word?


You may be familiar with the story of Jesus in the desert for 40 days with Satan.

After fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry.  The tempter came to him and said, ‘If you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become bread.’

Jesus answered, ‘It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.'”

Jesus, the Son of God, fought against the temptations of power, pride, greed, influence, and acclaim with the Word of God.

He even fought physical fatigue and hunger and loneliness with the Word of God.

How much more must this be true for us?

God’s Word was Christ’s hope, his consolation, his power, his perspective, his sustenance.

It’s taken me years to learn that it’s all of these things for me too.


If you’ve grown up in Christian culture, you’ve probably heard “being in God’s Word” presented as a number of different things:

spiritual discipline

— something you should desperately desire if you’re a devoted Christian

— where you find answers for life’s questions

the story of God’s people

the story of God’s love for the world

And all of this is true. But for me, I began to love and pursue and desire God’s Word when I realized it was my food.

Without it, I ricochet through my days much like mad mini Minnie with low blood sugar. My life is easily defined by my frustration, devastation, bewilderment, anger, and selfishness.

With it, I’m more grounded and centered. I have a perspective that’s so much bigger than myself and my own little kingdom. I walk in a spirit of truth instead of a spirit of crazy.


I realize this is the least theologian-ish post ever on the Word of God, like I see the Bible as some sort of therapeutic, self-help tool.

Actually, the Word of God is God. It’s alive and active,” the Living Word. 

Crazy, right? I can tell you from experience, we can’t control the ways it may work in our lives. We use words like “quiet time” or “daily devotions” and that makes it sound so tidy and polite. In reality, the word of God is sharper than a two edged sword.

The hope, revelation, conviction, identity, power, and perspective it can unleash in our right-now lives is untamable.


It’s been a hard week around here — a week of grief, stress, and overwhelm. There have been many circumstances, tasks, and emotions just this week that I have not wanted to receive. I’m depleted in every way.

The only thing that has kept me putting one foot in front of the other is the food I’ve eaten each morning, not out of duty but out of sheer desperation.

“Lord, I’m opening your word this morning. You know that I’m starving and desperate. Please feed me.”

And He has.

I realize that this post may raise more questions than answers.

How do you spend time in Scripture?

It’s hard to understand. How is it so meaningful to you?

I’m super busy / unmotivated / apathetic / cynical / ________. Any suggestions for me? 

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Yes! Let’s talk about all of these things. The next post in the series will get super practical. We’ll talk about everything from how your personality may influence your approach to studying the Bible, to real-life solutions when you’re busy, and even some helpful tools.

But here’s the thing: I can help inspire you to receive your current season of work, to find joy in feeding your family, or to find right-now ways to use some of the gifts that don’t feel like they have a place. These are the struggles of our regular lives and I long to encourage you in all of these areas.

But you’ll still get hungry, lose all perspective, and make it about your own little kingdom without God’s Word influencing and empowering your daily rhythms and pursuits. Ask me how I know. : )

I can only begin to receive my own life — heartache, limitations, frustration and all — when I begin to receive his Word as my truest and most beneficial sustenance.


I can’t wait for us to get practical about all this. If you have questions you’d like to see me address, I’d love that! You can leave them in the comments section or email me directly.

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  1. Ishah says

    You need to have a book published soon Marian as your thoughtfulness and insight are much needed!
    Love your honest writing. Thanks for offering this series for free, this post on the Word as food has really helped me see it in a fresh light.
    We need food to stay healthy, nourished and to grow. The same with scripture.
    I’m struggling in a season with two small children, feeling drained daily (fellow introvert here!), yet I am aware of my need to draw near to Christ more than ever.
    Looking forward to the next in this series Xx

    • says

      Thanks for your kind words here. I remember that season well! I hope that the next post will give you some right-now tools for being fed every day! : )

  2. Tonyia says

    Wow! God is using you to speak to me! With so many changes in my life, school finally finished, both my kids out of the house and married, learning to be just a wife at home again ….. I have found that I need to be fed. Fed every day, just to get through. As I read, I remember those same struggles with children. Now, no kids, and so many more struggles. I need Him each and every day. But I do struggle with am I doing it right, why sometimes do I feel like the drought has hit me? Is He there? Why can’t I hear Him? Thank you so much, your writing is helping me to put things into perspective, to look at my life and my provider in a way that maybe I have forgotten.

    I need to find a church that feeds me regularly too! So many times we go to a church that isn’t feeding us, I need to find that place that feeds me….I want to be fed! Thank you Marian! I know God has placed your inspirations before me to help me find my way back….He never leaves nor forsakes us…..Thank you! (PS…I’m never good at writing what I feel, but I hope you understand…Thanks!)

    • says

      Tonyia, you are better are writing what you feel than you think! Thank you so much for your kind and generous words; what encouragement they are to me as I continue to share each post in the series.

  3. Debbi says

    Oh how I remember poor mini Minnie, so sad and inconsolable!! That remarkable transformation was indeed a life long lesson. Only you Marian could make it a spiritual example of our need for God’s lifelong lessons.Because I get to experience much of life with you, I am so thankful and blessed that you are my daughter in law. God has given you such a gift of writing down examples of life in such a vivid way that we all feel as though we have experienced them ourselves. ( although I did experience this one in real life). I am still praying and encouraging you to put your life examples in a BOOK!

    • says

      You know I was thinking of you as I wrote the Minnie story because you were a first-hand eyewitness! : ) That story is proof that God can take anything and weave it into the truth our hearts need. Thank you for you kind and loving words and faithful support! (And you can pray that God will maybe create the space for that book be born.) : )

  4. Colette says

    I struggle often with not experiencing the Word as food or strength or inspiration, not really talking to me. But now a voice inside asks me how I eat my breakfast… yes: most of the time I eat while running around, not really tasting or enjoying the food. The Lord wants us to ‘taste and enjoy’ His goodness… (psalm 34) Hmmm… maybe a little exercise in slowing down, paying attention and really taste while eating food or verses might be helpful! Thanks so much for this series it’s refreshing and inspiring food for thought!

    • says

      Colette, that’s a great point. I often eat breakfast the same way and then couldn’t tell you a single thing about how it tasted…or even what I ate! The same can be true of our time spent with Scripture. Thanks for sharing your heart! I hope the next post may provide some practical tools as you move forward. : )

  5. Joan Rampey says

    The series has only just begun and your words are already packing a real punch! Once again, the daughter is teaching the mother. How I thank you, and thank our Father for you! LYF

  6. says

    LOVE this picture! What a wonderful way to look at the Bible.

    I think this series is a wonderful, wonderful idea, and I’m so glad you’re offering it. Of course, you know I’m a big fan of nearly everything you write.

    Now, one question for you. I’d probably disagree with the idea that the word of God IS God if you’re talking about the Bible. . . the eternal Logos is indeed God. I make the distinction just because I’ve unfortunately known a lot of people who worship the Bible (and, to be clear, I DO NOT think that’s what you’re suggesting or describing). I think what you mean is that the Spirit of God is alive and active, and one of the ways the Spirit works is through the Bible. What do you think? I don’t mean to split semantic hairs; I’m really interested in knowing what you think.

    Love you, friend!


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